How To Have a Great First Date With A Girl

How To Have a Great First Date With A Girl

It seems like whenever there’s a hot girl around, some guy is scared to talk to her. If you’re one of those guys, you’re probably wondering what’s wrong with you. That’s why you can’t even talk to a girl. What actually is wrong with you? Well, maybe the problem is you’re just not used to talking to girls.
When I tell you that you can fix this, though, nothing will surprise you. After all, first and foremost, you have to accept the fact that you are allowed to have a great personality even if you’re not the best-looking guy in the place. After all, attraction is all about looks, yes, but so is compatibility. And if you’re truly honest with yourself, you know you have plenty of both.
Now that you’ve accepted this truth, here is how to have a great first date with a girl.
Begin by reserving one of the places you always go to, and then simply decide to do something different. Why is this different? Well, whether you’d like to admit it or not, you’ve probably spent a good portion of your first date with her already. That is where you have to be adventurous.
Ideally, the best place would be someplace you are well-known. Perhaps a place is known for its great scent.
Whether you go there for a very mild atmosphere, or if you go there to really set the scene, both locations will let you pretend that you know each other. What’s more, the great scent that you are selecting will create a paper effect around the both of you. Remember that these are only effects, however. It won’t actually turn her into your girlfriend. Here’s another option: go to a grooming store and have him remove your facial hair. This is almost as good if not better than the previous option.
Regardless of what you decide to do, do it artistically. I completely understand that your girl’s facial hair is a sign of her femininity. This is a good thing. Your goal must be to turn her superficial impression of you toward a more enlightened thinker.
Be mysterious. Girls like a challenge. Don’t be too eager to divulge all the things you can do at one time. If you tell her that you can do five things at once, you eventually spoil the surprise. She knows what you can do, so why should she have to ask?
Become more engrossed in her brain. Instead of talking non-stop, ask about her feelings. The more inkling of her emotions you get, the more intrigued she will be. Ask her about her greatest memories. When the night is over and when she has shared all she has kept, ask her if she can help you with something she’s been meaning to, but was too shy to ask.
Now, at this point, the ball is in your court. Either you score, or you don’t. Either you win, or you lose. But if you look closely, the way she sees it, you lose every time. For her, the whole experience was nothing but a waste of time.
The key is not to make the whole night an “interview”, and don’t press for answers either. Just be honest and ask how she feels when you “fail” (try and forget that word!).
Like I said, start out being the gentleman and instead become more and more of a man as your relationship grows. She will thank you for it.
In the end, your life is your own. True, there are some women who will be attracted to you straight away, but they are rare. Since you can’t change a woman because of your parent’s actions, go out and make the first move. She will rise to your challenge! I wish you every success in this pursuit.

Leave a comment

Send a Comment

Your email address will not be published.